On my Churchill Fellowship research I was fortunate enough to speak to some amazing
professionals, parents and practitioners across a range of contexts, cultures and
countries.
It’s worth noting that not all the interviews I undertook were recorded due to technology,
time or other reasons but they were as equally valuable and the notes I took were as
informative and thought provoking as the ones recorded. I also only recorded portions of
our conversations to promote more candid discussions.
I hope you find these useful and you can find contact details of the interviewees within the report on the final few pages.
Consultant with A4L/Interwoven Connections. Discussion on the development of the service, importance of the AFCCA (Aggression towards Families and Caregivers from Children and Adolescents) definition,
networking, development of professionals’ knowledge of AFCCA, peer support and
online services.
Discussion of the specific model for supporting families and children diagnosed with
RAD with the use of therapeutic foster carers, intensive therapy for children and strengthening networks around families.
Discussion in relation to online support in terms of accessibility, immediacy and peer support. Specific issues of safeguarding and confidentiality.
Discussion in relation to the specific context of New Zealand and the challenges that families face in relation to isolation and shame that inhibit seeking support. There is no adoption and a focus on families caring for children. Lee explained the lack of professional training or a formal response to families but some limited knowledge through individual communities parenting and caring for children with specific additional needs and disabilities that experience it.
Discussion in relation to the her role offering respite to families within the Mennonite community but also further afield. Families are often burned out and struggling to manage their children’s behaviour. Shanelle works with therapists and counsellors to offer a therapeutic and structured environment while parents take time to rest and recoup.
Discussion round the broader support that they offer adoptive parents in the community. Peer led support groups with training available to support families and
different groups focusing on specific needs or members of the community. Discussion in relation to the challenges facilitators may face.
Discussion in relation to the peer support network and how that functions. There are levels of support that all stem from the basic groups with there being peer mentors identifying needs, supporting with advocacy and ‘buddying’ up with other
parent/carers. There is also the facility for specific training and interventions depending on the needs. That may be NVR or polyvagal support, community support, safety plans etc.
Discussion around the benefits that peer support groups can bring to parents with similar and comparable experiences. The nature of the groups and often raw nature of the experiences and emotions expressed. Lillyth explains some of the issues that are faced by members, how aspects of the group works and reflects on broader issues impacting on parents. The language is frank and the conversation includes
description and mention of physical violence and suicide.
Discussion on the services the broader that they provided to families in Ireland from
the adoption community. They create a relational based service from first contact that contrasts other services. Banardos provide support through facilitate focused peer support groups, training and interventions for children and families.
Discussion specifically about the peer support framework that is set up for families, how they access the service and the support that they get. Shannon explains who the ‘IPC’ workers are, their role, recruitment, induction process and support frameworks around them.
Murray shares his family’s experience of the Interwoven connections support.
Christen shared her experience of seeking support through conventional and universal services and it being primarily focused on the child. Interwoven Connections (previously Adopt4Life) peer and clinical support were accessed and were able to offer a range of help that offered a more holistic service and support to the family.
Leonard works directly with families using the Non Violent Resistance framework to
support them to see effective change in children’s behaviour. He reflected on the isolation that parents feel and the stigma that is often present.
Larisa is the team leader and we discuss the routes into the services and the specific programme that they undertake with the families that are directed to the service.
You can view the ‘Breaking the Cycle’ facilitator’s manual here that Larisa kindly shared. I’d ask that if you do draw materials from it that you acknowledge where you took it from.
Lauri was key in the establishment of the AFCCA service and explains some of the key steps that were made in terms of defining the issue, collaboration and setting up of
the service.
Tania discusses the trauma and connection focused work that they do through a 16 week programme for families, parents and children.
Liza works with 12 to 17 year old children often where there has been violence in the home supporting parents children development of emotional regulation. They run a 20 week programme with the individual families.
Michelle works in private practice specifically with families formed through adoption and struggling to manage challenging behaviour. Michelle works with Shanelle Zieset and I spoke to them together at the beginning of my interviews.
Tania talks about the challenges that families face and specifically the work that she does with parents in relation to regulations and self-awareness using the polyvagal model to create fertile ground to grow other interventions from.
In this conversation we discuss the growing and fledgling work that Laura is coordinating in Ireland. She reflects on the experiences of children and their families and the response to their support needs. There are some responses for carers in
relation to challenging behaviour available with the country but these are currently universal and carers often have significant barriers to accessing them.
Discussion in relation to the broader policy context of adolescent violence towards caregivers. The issues is positioned within the family violence and are referred in through police and this framework impacts broadly on how other services view violence and aggression from children and how they intervene.
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